I’m not sure if I ever learned where and how the Better Half discovered Charlie Mackesy’s wonderful book, The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse, I’m just delighted that she did. I’ve already read it to the Granddaughter a couple of times. I mention it here, today, because the entire message of the book fits so well with the spirit of the season and because some may be pondering what Santa’s book elves could leave under the tree or in a stocking. In fact, as an early present to myself, I’m going to reread the book over the weekend. My spirits of the season have been slow to bloom this year and I suspect the book may be just what those spirits need. In fact, I’m pretty sure the holiday seasons would be much improved if everyone spent time reading the book instead of whatever “productive” activities seem most profitable.
In a different way, I just summarized one of the problems I’m having with my letter to Santa this year. I could easily, and joyfully, spend time this winter rereading a number of the books I already have on the shelves, plus there’s that tsundoku condition I suffer from. It’s similar to the collection of flies (dry and nymphs) I have that haven’t yet been touched by water. I have come across a “new and improved” kind of flour at King Arthur that can go in my letter to the big guy. I think I’ve already mentioned that I’m asking for world peace and, on further consideration, I’m adding an enhanced dose of sanity for everyone.
a wonderful and true ornament
Photo by J. Harrington
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As I’ve been typing this, it has occurred to me that the collection of Christmas music and books are still tucked away at the back of one of the closets. That probably helps explain why my holiday spirits aren’t yet flourishing. We’ll tend to their uncovering this weekend. After a year’s absence, it’ll be almost like unwrapping new presents.
Be Kind
Not merely because Henry James said there were but four rules of life— be kind be kind be kind be kind—but because it's good for the soul, and, what's more, for others, it may be that kindness is our best audition for a worthier world, and, despite the vagueness and uncertainty of its recompense, a bird may yet wander into a bush before our very houses, gratitude may not manifest itself in deeds entirely equal to our own, still there's weather arriving from every direction, the feasts of famine and feasts of plenty may yet prove to be one, so why not allow the little sacrificial squinches and squigulas to prevail? Why not inundate the particular world with minute particulars? Dust's certainly all our fate, so why not make it the happiest possible dust, a detritus of blessedness? Surely the hedgehog, furling and unfurling into its spiked little ball, knows something that, with gentle touch and unthreatening tone, can inure to our benefit, surely the wicked witches of our childhood have died and, from where they are buried, a great kindness has eclipsed their misdeeds. Yes, of course, in the end so much comes down to privilege and its various penumbras, but too much of our unruly animus has already been wasted on reprisals, too much of the unblessed air is filled with smoke from undignified fires. Oh friends, take whatever kindness you can find and be profligate in its expenditure: It will not drain your limited resources, I assure you, it will not leave you vulnerable and unfurled, with only your sweet little claws to defend yourselves, and your wet little noses, and your eyes to the ground, and your little feet.
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